How To Make A Great First Impression With Women

One of the largest and most commonly asked questions that men ever ask me is: How can I be more successful at approaching women? I’ve got some good news for you…the answer is a LOT simpler then you actually think!



The best way to increase your chances of having a successful “approach” when approaching women is to make an AMAZING first impression. First impressions usually happen within the first 30 seconds of meeting someone and can last as long as 2 minutes. After this window is over, your “first impression” chance is gone and it will take a real bit of work to change the persons opinion. That’s why it’s important to nail a great first impression each and every time


How does one do this though? When it comes to making a great first impression with women, there are 3 main things you need to focus on above all other…


• Be Sociable


Naturally, if you want to be successful at meeting women then you need to be sociable. You don’t want to shy away from the conversation. If you approach a woman and you’re hesitant to talk when it’s your turn or if you try to avoid talking then you will look like a very unsociable person who isn’t very fun.However if you approach women and you know how to keep a conversation going, and you know how to make the conversation fun then you will always be remembered for having that ability.


• Great Body Language


It’s extremely important to have solid body language when approaching women. Having bad body language will immediately tell the woman that you are nervous, anxious, or socially awkward. You want to have “open” body language, body language that says I’m comfortable with myself and my surroundings. You can do this by keeping your hands out of your pockets, hands at your sides, keeping your shoulders and head back, etc You want to have good back posture as well, which means you don't want to walk slouched over with your head looking torwards the ground!


• Use Comedy


You don’t want to seem like a boring person right off of the bat. You want to introduce comedy as soon as possible. The best possible way is to open to the woman in a slightly off-the-wall comment that is funny and will get a great response. If you can get them to laugh as soon as you meet them, then you can count yourself as practically golden because they will always remember you (because of the first impression) as a very funny guy.


Having a great first impression with women is key for nailing the attraction early on when building rapport. If you build a great impression that says “I’m a fun guy who is comfortable with himself” then you will make her feel a lot more comfortable around you. On the flipside, if you give the impression that you are in a bad mood or that you are uncomfortable, she will in turn feel uncomfortable about you.


This is just the tip of the ice berg to attracting women though, if you would like to really learn more then you will need to keep up with the articles here.


Wishing you all the success with women,

HOW TO APPROACH A LADY!

Feeling lonely? Understandable. Tons of guys have problems picking up and attracting women. Unfortunately for most of us (including myself), we weren’t born with the magical abilities to be able to get girls without much effort. I was finally fed up with my situation, so I set out the better part of a decade ago and I discovered exactly what worked with women, and more importantly, what didn’t! So now here I am, and I am going to give you my top 3 tips and tricks that you can use RIGHT NOW to start picking up women and will get you right on your way to learning how to get girls!

..........Don’t be Afraid of Rejection

Most guys have a paralyzing fear of rejection. Typically, it happens like this. A man sees a beautiful woman, and sometimes, he may even talk himself into approaching her. Between this moment and the next, the man starts doubting himself. “She looks busy”, “She probably has a boyfriend”, or “She’s way out of my league” when in reality this is just people validating their own fear of being rejected. In fact, when people are paying me hundreds of dollars to give them personal one-on-one coaching, I will tell them to go out and get rejected on purpose! Most women, even if they do end up telling you no, they will do it by saying “I have a boyfriend” so don’t be afraid of being laughed at. Go to a city a few miles away to where you know no one and no one knows you. This way, you can ask women out without the feeling of rejection because at the end of the day, you’ll never see these people again. As Michael Jordan once said, you miss 100% of the shots you don’t take.


.........Be Confident


Women, when asked, will always say the most desirable and sexy trait that a man can have is to be confident. Act like you run the world, like you are the most desirable man on earth and you can get practically whatever you want, whenever you want. If you approach a woman and you seem hesitant or you act like you are nervous, you will get rejected almost 100% of the time. Be confident! If you want to discover how to get girls, this is the most important thing you need to master!

...........Be A Challenge

Women love challenges. This is typically why most women date “jerks” as opposed to nice guys. This
isn’t because Jerk’s are more attractive than nice guys, it’s just that they are more of a challenge. You don’t need to be a jerk to get women if you know how to be a challenge. Jokingly point out something, “those are nice shoes, my 5 year old niece has a pair” and smile. Every woman, everywhere, gets compliments thrown at her nonstop by guys who want to hook up with her. Change the game, challenge her. You can even create a small amount of drama if you really want to get her attracted do you.

If you follow these tips on how to get girls, I guarantee that you will be a ladies man in no time!

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